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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.

A Man

Feb. 9th, 2026 10:32 pm
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I like my dad. Hes a good man.

He may not be very reliable, he may be a little flaky at time, or hard to reach. And there was the time he bailed on his own birthday. We were about to light the candle but he said he needed to go to the corner store real quick and grab something. We didn't see him for a few weeks. There was the after time he left my little brothers birthday party while i was crying for him. He blamed my mom for it. He had his girlfriend there and a baby im not sure was his. He spent quite the time with it.

There are plenty of time were he wasn't really a great father but i think hes a good dad.
Hes not even my real dad but i couldn't tell the difference. From the moment he came into my life to now.
Even while hes not with my mom he still trys to be there for us, for me. Not even blood but he always treats us like it.

Hes a good dad, and amazing dad, and just as there is bad there is also good.

Like how he always thinks of us as soon as he got payed. From when i was a little girl and even to now. I have the memories of him calling my mom telling her he got paid and asking us what we wanted from the store. And then just this weekend he offered to take me to a surplus store because he knows I've been wanting to go, and even when i didn't have the money he said he would by me something. I got a coat, a nice coat, 50 something bucks. He even came home and gave my brother 50 so we had an equal split. And Then also when i mentioned wanting a helmet but not wanting to get one from there with how expensive they are he said he may know a guy who has one and that he'd get it for me.

What about the bike? I had been talking about wanting to get one, asking for jobs from him so i could save up to buy my own. I only talked about it, never asked. Then a week or so later he came home telling me he had gotten me one. Nothing new, probably an old one but that didn't matter. I didn't care if it was new or old just that i had one. I was so happy, and still am

He always thinks of me, he does. It may not feel like it sometimes or it may feel far but at least its there. At least he's there. He's always cared for me and hes always here for me even when i feel alone and even when hes hard to reach.

So yeah, i like my dad, i love him. Hes a good man. And even though there are some bad things, there are good things to make up for it.

I love him so much and i will always be my dad's girl, his daughter.

What a weirdo, a freak

Feb. 8th, 2026 11:00 pm
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I have this weird crave or fantasy of some kind. im not sure what to call it but its a very prominent thing for me.

I want to be abused. Emotional, physically, sexually. I want to be in a relationship where I've been simply stripped of my dignity, of my humanity. To be treated like a pet, a little play thing, something to break down and then build back up in a way that would be more suitable for you.

I think about this a lot and fantasize about it quite often. I don't know what it is, where it came from, or why its here, but it is.

I wanted to be treated like im less than human, like im nothing but an object, and then be praised for how obedient i am for it. For someone to tell me that im nothing and im worthless and that i would never actually matter to anyone else but them. And I'd believe it. Every single word of it. I want to become so dependent on them that i would truly believe that i am just simply happy there. That every bruise i have was only simply a marking of love.

Its gross, disgusting.
But i could really sit and think about it all day, get flushed like some teenage girl thinking about a crush.

"How romantic!~" No?

Well, we'll see

Feb. 7th, 2026 10:56 am
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Why do opportunities I've been banking on only come up during plans I've been banking on?

God, what luck does one girl have for this to come about. This ain't the first time and im sure it won't be the last.

Last week I got to go over to my sister's house after not being able to go over for a while only to find out that I was also able to go to my boyfriend's house but I somehow forgot so didn't and i was relatively sad about it. One plan over another.

And now this week. geez what timing for me, how unfortunate. Today im able to go to my boyfriend's and i AM but yesterday, last night, while watching a movie with my dad he told me that tomorrow (today) we can go to one of the military supply stores that I've been wanting to go to for some time now. He even said HE'D buy me something which is even better. But today i want to go to my boyfriend's. I Am going today.

My father said he'd be here in the morning, its currently 10:
If he's not here in the next hour or so then i go to my boyfriends and miss the supply store.
I could cancel to wait to go with my dad but 1. I already cancelled last week so I'd feel really bad and 2. I could be sitting here waiting all day for him to never show.
My dad isn't reliable thats why hes not even here yet.
It'll come back around, both opportunities will and i know this but I'll bank one over the other and wait again.

I don't even know what I'd get at the store. A coat or maybe he helmet. Maybe another gasmask or if they have it a nice trenchcoat.
Time comes and so do plans, it'll find me again.

Fuck

Feb. 5th, 2026 09:29 pm
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I think im non-sharing

today, Feb 4, 2026, I say this

Feb. 4th, 2026 07:50 pm
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today I got a sharpener.

if you were to know me well you would probably try to talk to me, take it from me, ask for it, or steal it.
I remember that last time I got a sharpener it was in front of my boyfriend and he looked at me because he knew what I had gotten it for. he tried to take it from me but I didn't let him, I even giggled as if it was a game. I felt so bad after, guilty that he knew, or guilty that he had seen. I don't think I felt that bad though because I still went home and took it apart to cut myself.

I think he felt them the next day or so. he had his hands under my sleeve and I felt his fingers go over my wrists. I never flipped my hands over so fast. I changed the subject as soon I realized, talked about something that was nothing just to keep off the fact I was hurt.
its hard to say what I felt in that moment, it wasn't important for what I knew.
it wouldn't be brought up of any kind so I brushed over it.

anyway, the sharpener, I got one today. for Christmas I got colored pencils. they're nice colored pencils, I got a lot, like 180. the thing about colored pencils is they dull as you use them, right? and I didn't have anything to sharpen them, I had a knife bit that would ruin my pencils. all the sharpeners I would have had I had taken apart so my mom let me use her makeup pencil sharpener.. a sharpener that was already dull.

so I needed one. not for me to use in ways I wasn't supposed to but just one to use for real, for what it was made for.

so today I got a sharpener.
and for the first time in a very long I'm going to actually it for what its made for.
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[staff profile] mark posting in [site community profile] dw_maintenance

Hi all!

I'm doing some minor operational work tonight. It should be transparent, but there's always a chance that something goes wrong. The main thing I'm touching is testing a replacement for Apache2 (our web server software) in one area of the site.

Thank you!

Its an option

Feb. 2nd, 2026 12:53 am
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I have a small one, one i had gotten with my kit. Its tiny, and i mean really really small. It wouldn't be hard to take apart and i truly doubt I actually need two.

I would just feel almost bad, not really that much but enough for it to sit in my head. I don't know if I'd lose that privilege if i did, i wouldn't doubt and i would totally understand but it would suck if i did. I'd be responsible of getting my own then.

God its right there, you know. Nothing else is stopping me its all so close together im in the perfect mind and feeling.

No one would know really, not that that changes anything really but there's no one to do anything, no one to stop me, to say anything. Not that anyone would, not that they have.

Fuck.

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Jan. 30th, 2026 07:51 pm
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why is cradle of filth so hatedw

oh, okay

Jan. 29th, 2026 12:38 pm
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I mean I can't say I'm not scared. I'm a little nervous that's for sure. so many people are doing this walkout just to skip school, so many people are joking about it. its making me genuinely so upset, sick.

no one takes this seriously, ever. no one takes anything seriously when it comes to this. they'er laughing at it or making jokes. they laugh about everything and make jokes. I mean, I'm in class doing a group project on the HOLOCAUST and these kids cant STAND to take it like people died. why the fuck are these fucking kids making these slide shows funny? as If its a joke??

I can do this, I know I can, but oh my God I'm getting so mad at it all.

I know what I'm doing is right and I have people to stand next to me just wish there where more.

ok

Jan. 28th, 2026 07:00 pm
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i have a thing for the weird corny kids with reddit "THIS DIDDY BLUD" humor

idk why theyre just like cute cause theyre so weird
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